Best First Message for Montreal Dating

The best first message is simple: something specific + one easy question. No essays. No generic lines. Just a real start.

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The 1-line formula

Formula: Comment on something + ask one easy question.

25 first messages that get replies

  1. “That hiking photo is awesome — where was that?”
  2. “You seem fun — what’s your ideal weekend in Montreal?”
  3. “Quick one: coffee date or dessert date?”
  4. “Your bio made me laugh — what’s your go-to comfort food?”
  5. “What’s the best spot you’ve discovered in the city lately?”
  6. “Are you more ‘chill night in’ or ‘night out’?”
  7. “If we grabbed coffee this week, what day works best for you?”
  8. “What music have you been listening to lately?”
  9. “Your travel pic is great — where would you go next?”
  10. “What’s one hobby you never get tired of?”
  11. “You seem like you have good taste — what’s your favorite movie?”
  12. “What’s your perfect simple date idea?”
  13. “What’s something you’re genuinely excited about right now?”
  14. “Tea person or coffee person?”
  15. “What’s your favorite way to unwind after work?”
  16. “If you had a free Saturday, what would you do?”
  17. “What’s your best ‘hidden gem’ suggestion in Montreal?”
  18. “Are you an early bird or night owl?”
  19. “What’s the best meal you’ve had recently?”
  20. “What’s your favorite season in Montreal?”
  21. “What’s your ‘must-have’ on a good date?”
  22. “If we met for dessert, what’s your top pick?”
  23. “What’s your favorite kind of conversation?”
  24. “What’s something you want to learn this year?”
  25. “Would you be open to a quick coffee meet this week?”

Turn the chat into a date

When the vibe is good, suggest: “Coffee this week? Tuesday or Thursday?”

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